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I Hate When People Pressure Me

I love meeting new people and talking to people on here but It gets so annoying some people who keep pressuring me to talk in private and if I don't reply instantly they get annoyed at me.
Im not trying to be rude or anything but im not overly good keeping up conversations when im in a talkative mood here and certainly not when I don't have anything to talk about.
And its a huge turn off from talking to people who get annoyed at me for it.. lol I don't always write on this site that im antisocial and have social anxiety for the hell of it, im a social awkward mess and a good majority of time It is really difficult for me to keep up with conversations... Questions and so on are easier for me here..

Anyway had to get it off my chest and hopefully those who keep doing this will get the message and not take offense to it

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SapphicHeart · F

Don't let them get under your skin. If they can't wait they're simply not worth your time. Just keep being you. *-*

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SapphicHeart · F

@PlumBerries
Oh my. Tell me all about nightmares and eye rolls. Better, lemme join those. 🙄

PlumBerries · 31-35, F

its nice to get a good eye roll out once in awhile lol

SapphicHeart · F

@PlumBerries
Much needed at times. Lol.

ozgirl512 · 26-30, F

Just remember you're here for your enjoyment, not ours... Live life at the peace you're comfortable with

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SW-User

@PlumBerries you make others happy because that's the person you are and the qualities you have inside of you. That's a good thing. And don't ever change or lose that part of you. But take time to enjoy the site for you and talk about things you like and enjoy

Love from Jen xx

PlumBerries · 31-35, F

thanks Jen, I do talk about stuff I enjoy a lot here its just I hate the pressure some people put on me at times here to be socially towards them daily in really long conversations and if I don't, they get abuse and guilt me over it

ozgirl512 · 26-30, F

@PlumBerries 🤗

Heyitsem01 · F

You are ok with me plummy 😊 I never pressurize anyone to private chat. Usually, If I meet someone and they find a conenction with me, they usually say hi forst in my inbox 😊

PlumBerries · 31-35, F

@Heyitsem01 yeah but do they get annoyed when you don't reply right away and constantly send you messages?

SW-User

i totally get this

sometimeslonelytoo · 51-55, M

Seems very fairly stated. Not that we've spoken via PM for years, but for me PM is often more like email than chat; I definitely prefer it that way too.