PerfectionOfTheHeart · 46-50, F
Definitely. Letting go can be extremely difficult, but there’s only so much you can do and so much time, energy, and attention you can devote to a person before it’s made clear that you have to start focusing on the quality of your own path…even if that means they’re not supposed to walk with you on it.

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@PerfectionOfTheHeart exactly !..

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Sometimes you're so used to loving a person, it's out of habit, and you don't realize that. You have to decide to step away, and focus on yourself, and it eventually gets easier.

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@SW-User yes of course..it just takes time

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@SW-User Exactly.
Keepitsimple · 56-60, F
Or make them a distant memory and move on so you can experience something nice with somebody worth it.

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@Keepitsimple of course ..that's the goal ,isnt it ..
Keepitsimple · 56-60, F
@SW-User Pretty much. You’re in or out. Not gonna play head games. Life is too short.

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@Keepitsimple you are correct
Ambroseguy80 · 56-60, M
Sounds good on paper, but it’s usually more complicated than that.
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@Ambroseguy80 no it shouldn't. Unfortunately, other factors do ...
Ambroseguy80 · 56-60, M
@SW-User I’m sorry…. Complications do abound in relationships. Would be nice to keep things simple.

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@Ambroseguy80 it would be ,that's just not how it goes sometimes
btchstfu · F
pain

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@btchstfu yes it is painful ..but through pain we learn and grow
btchstfu · F
@SW-User why do we have to go through pain to learn and grow? have u ever wonder that

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@btchstfu Pain has a purpose that's why
SapphicHeart · F
Accept was is, without a doubt. I prefer to close fully down, and distance won't be of essence thereafter, eventually.

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@SapphicHeart I do shut down but my heart never does
SapphicHeart · F
@SW-User
No matter what, they're always going to be a part of the heart, they once held it in their hands.
No matter what, they're always going to be a part of the heart, they once held it in their hands.

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@SapphicHeart ugh...yeah
Notanymore · 41-45, M
Accept and love

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@Notanymore You got that right ..and by forgiving we can heal
Notanymore · 41-45, M
@SW-User sometimes I forget myself

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@Notanymore That's okay we all need these reminders ..and so do I

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Exactly.
Pinkstarburst · F
Yes
BananaBrown · 41-45, F
Agreed

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Or not at all.
Eddiesolds · 61-69, M
Yes
Nanori · F
Or just block them and take a piss on their name

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@Nanori 😂..I can't do either
Coldplay · 61-69, M
Distance sucks.........