I Hate It When Someone Messages Me And Say Hey Or Hi

I cant stand small talk in real life. Never mind the internet. If your opening message is "Hi", "Hey", "Hello" etc. then chances are I will not reply. Not because i'm mean but because I literally get about 20 messages a day from people I've never spoken to before saying the same thing. I just WISH that they would spend that extra 30 seconds to come up with something eye catching that would give me an idea whether I do or don't want to talk to them or tell me what they saw on my profile that was of interest to them. Its not much to ask