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I Feel That Something Is Missing From My Life

There are days, like today, when I just want a good man to come, take me out, and pamper me for a day. I haven’t been pampered in decades by anyone, and as I go through stressful situations (as I have the past few days, and not something I’ve shared here), then you hear news that is a relief, that stress hormone comes down, and you just want someone to treat you as special, and provide some comfort and soothing as you breathe more easily again because you’ve been carrying the burden alone.

It’s a luxury that I don’t have, but still it’s okay to desire two strong arms to hold you, and treat you with loving kindness.
SmartKat · 61-69, F
It’s completely normal to want this. Don’t let anybody tell you otherwise.
Carissimi · F
@SmartKat I was loading my trunk in the grocery store car park, and was struggling to get a large item out of the trolley. An older man came along and said, “would you like help with that ma’am?” I can’t tell you how good that felt. It’s so alien to me for so long. I hardly interact with any men, let alone have one help me. I actually felt like a woman again in those few moments. I thanked him with great sincerity, and wished him a good day. He doesn’t know how much his chivalry warmed my heart. I don’t know his story, Kat, but if he’s alone too, I hope it cheered him to help a lady who is ever so grateful.
rckt148 · 61-69, M
ravenwind43 · 51-55, F
Oh girl I am so with you on that!!! It feels like it's been a century. 😕
rckt148 · 61-69, M
ravenwind43 · 51-55, F
@rckt148 TY🙂
Montanaman · M
☝️ This 🤗💞🌹
ABCDEF7 · M
Hugs.

Take care,
Best Wishes 🙂
Carissimi · F
@rckt148 Thank you so much. 🥰
rckt148 · 61-69, M
@Carissimi You are very welcome .
Wish I could give you a hug in person ,I know how you feel .
I have had 3 people contact me in the last 2 days ,broken ,lonely .
Asking me what my secret is to being alone all the time is,and I am in pain .
Its keeping my mind busy and not entertaining any negative thoughts .
I am blessed ,I have a family that loves me (no wife or girlfriend )but my children and theirs ,we are a hugging family but as you know ,its not the same .
I remind myself I have been loved ,and those kids are the fruit of it .
I try to show kindness to others and in turn its usually shown to me .
And hugs from the kids (who are grown except my little boy ) and my Grandkids too ,,the youngest of them turned 18 today will have to do .
Carissimi · F
@rckt148 You have a good attitude. I applaud you for being alone AND in pain. Your children and grandchildren sound wonderful, and I’m happy they give you hugs. Kids are a great joy.
I forgot to hug you back, 🤗 and I love the flowers. A little kindness and affection goes a long way. 🙏

 
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