Why is it that older women in particular past age 30 always tell everything about there self when men first meet them? And younger dont ?

Maybe they aren't worried as much about what you might think and are more concerned with you getting to know who they are.

Maybe it’s to do with not caring as much after a certain point how it’ll be perceived.

i guess i’m over 30

That is defo not true for me.

Is that so?

Those who do, probably want to get it out of the way. If you can deal with their history, things can go forward. If not, they needn’t waste any more time.

One reason I always I liked older women when I was younger.

Not really it totally depends on people.