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Mom bod misunderstandings

At my job today, a colleague from another location saw a photo of me when I was 19-20 and asked if it was 'my daughter' 😅
She obviously saw enough of a likeness to me but I was a lot thinner then. But it did make me wonder how old must she think I am? I know for some people being chubby gives them a youthful look but I sometimes feel I could pass for a woman in her 40's.

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MartinTheFirst · 26-30, M

Wow you're dedicated to this lifestyle lol 😳

Emele · 31-35, FVIP

@MartinTheFirst To a point, I am not someone who just wants to get fatter with no end in sight. I feel 100% more comfortable, more 'myself' as a larger person and it was the right thing for me to decide to gain. But yeah, it didn't happen by accident, it did take an effort 😅

MartinTheFirst · 26-30, M

@Emele 😚 sweet

BlightyBoy · 26-30, M

@Emele So you did make a decision to gain on purpose eventually then? Glad it makes you feel more comfortable and fulfilled, and not sad. Do you think you’ll stay the size you are now - or do you want to gain some more?

Emele · 31-35, FVIP

@BlightyBoy ha I feel all kinds of ways about it at different times. But yeah, I decided to when I was 20 and before that I had been very slim. I don't want to gain any more now.

BlightyBoy · 26-30, M

@Emele But by the sounds of things mostly you’re happy with how things are? Good for you. Has your girlfriend settled on her preferred weight too?

Emele · 31-35, FVIP

@BlightyBoy Oh for sure I am, yes. She has actually gotten big herself too but I don't think it's preferred exactly, she is fine with it but I do believe she will do something about it.

BlightyBoy · 26-30, M

@Emele Well whatever she’s happiest with. You both look fine to me as is obvs lol. Now things are getting closer to normal making changes will be easier, if that’s what she decides she wants.