I Would Love To Write
Life is so full of irony and hypocrisy. And somehow one can find every facet of it right here in my country and countrymen.
First thing that has been bristling me is, the beef ban. Cz cow is a sacred animal in our religion which constitutes the majority of population. Understandably offensive to most of us. But then, more then half of the majority are vegans, they might kill somebody over chicken too. How can we begrudge someone their choice of food. Extremism.
The irony is, the country that worships cow is world's biggest beef exporter too. (as Water buffalo is also classified as beef by the USDA).
Countrymen and women for that matter. Everyone I meet who is married or going to get married would advice me to save myself the trouble. Specially my friends, who have been literally waiting to get married since like forever. And I understand that, they see the obstacles that come with such huge responsibility. Its a big thing. A lot of adjustment.
But why preach when you won't practice. I don't give advice that I wont follow.
Which brings me to the last thing, beauty is all that matters. Specially in my country, where we have arranged marriages. You see somebody twice and you decide whether or not you will marry, rest is all adjustments. How can I judge person by looking, unless its Chris Hemsworth or Matt Bomer, hell even my celebrity crushes took months to develop.
Ironically, Love marriages end up bad most often than not and arranged marriages do work more.
Well compatibility is developed, and that's what works in a marriage. Unbalanced matches whether love or arranged would break. And throw in the vanity that constitutes the whole thing, even the idea of marriage has me in shivers.
First thing that has been bristling me is, the beef ban. Cz cow is a sacred animal in our religion which constitutes the majority of population. Understandably offensive to most of us. But then, more then half of the majority are vegans, they might kill somebody over chicken too. How can we begrudge someone their choice of food. Extremism.
The irony is, the country that worships cow is world's biggest beef exporter too. (as Water buffalo is also classified as beef by the USDA).
Countrymen and women for that matter. Everyone I meet who is married or going to get married would advice me to save myself the trouble. Specially my friends, who have been literally waiting to get married since like forever. And I understand that, they see the obstacles that come with such huge responsibility. Its a big thing. A lot of adjustment.
But why preach when you won't practice. I don't give advice that I wont follow.
Which brings me to the last thing, beauty is all that matters. Specially in my country, where we have arranged marriages. You see somebody twice and you decide whether or not you will marry, rest is all adjustments. How can I judge person by looking, unless its Chris Hemsworth or Matt Bomer, hell even my celebrity crushes took months to develop.
Ironically, Love marriages end up bad most often than not and arranged marriages do work more.
Well compatibility is developed, and that's what works in a marriage. Unbalanced matches whether love or arranged would break. And throw in the vanity that constitutes the whole thing, even the idea of marriage has me in shivers.
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