I Have Secret Sexual Urges

Sexual urges! Doesn't everyone have them?! But in society, in everyday we can't really just take care of ourselves there and then. I don't necessary keep it a secret. Well on this website, I'm very open about what I like and what turns me on. But whilst it is healthy to explore our sexual urges and take care of ourselves and have that release. It's not healthy to do it everyday. What do other people do? I mean, when they realise that its not healthy to do it everyday, when they realise it is becoming a toll on our bodies. How do people harness this and storing it without driving themselves complete crazy? See, I want to be able to store it and I want to be able to think about certain things without getting too turned on by it, that maybe I can develop my own off switch? Will there ever be an off switch? Do I just enjoy the feeling of that urge? Do I just enjoy the intensity of this feeling, this energy? Can doing this give me even powerful, stronger and longer, powerful erections? I'm thinking about cutting out porn videos out now, its too accessible, I was reading a thing last night saying that watching porn, even if its hardcore can desensitise our sensuality, so that when regular sex happens, there's no interest, because there's not enough kink? Is there a line with kinks? Do we need to draw a bloody line? What I watch? The average person can be thinking that its a bit perverse and maybe they'd be right! Should I set myself a challenge? Get rid of porn, don't go off porn altogether! And perhaps rely on my imagination more? I remember the day when I used to fantasise, I had imagination, meaning my mind was a lot more powerful, I'm afraid I'm relying too much on the visual. Can I raise my sexual desire to teenage levels by doing this? So then when it is ever visual? Its only when it is actually happening between you and your sexual partner? Thus maybe would increase my sensuality and enable myself to be hankerin'? So that I can arise to the occasion?

Ladies and Gentlemen, tell me what you think! :)