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I Know Love Hurts

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My daughter and her boyfriend went on their last date together last night. Sadness. A sweeter love never there could be found, to be honest with you. It was happy to have witnessed it, and a mom couldn't have asked for a better first love for her daughter. He always treated her with the utmost of love and respect, which I definitely appreciated. They have been together a year and a half and there is absolutely nothing wrong with them to this day. But they are both young and both full of talent, ambitions, and dreams--so they are having to go their separate ways. She gave it a lot of thought and ultimately decided that a clean break would be better than anything else, so they are breaking up. I respect her decision. It's just still sad. Hopefully if they are to be together in the future, it will work out for them. And if not, hopefully there is someone else out there who will treat her as well as he has. Knock on wood to both of those. Although she said they were both traumatized and that neither one of them were looking to have another serious relationship any time soon. What if they're scarred for life? They just really love each other and don't want to say goodbye. And I don't blame them. I think it's just like life to make a perfect couple break up, when there are imperfect couples stuck together for whatever reason all over the place and would give anything to be able to get out of it. Oh the irony. Anyway, I've tried to tell her hey at least you got to experience it once in your lifetime because many people go their entire lives and never know such a love. I try to tell her if it's meant to be, it will be. But I'm not sure how much she can appreciate that wisdom, and LaLaLand got to her really badly! I also have been telling her to hold any future boyfriends to his standard. I do wish the best for him, too--whatever that may be. We both love/d him dearly and whatever the future may hold, he will always have a special place in both of our hearts.💕
curiosi · 61-69, F
You did a good job mom! Many girls latch on to a man for security and support. She is strong willed and determined. We don't know what the future holds and there is always the possibility they will get back together. If not then she will hold out for someone who treats her right.
Bean17 · 51-55, F
True. I'm gonna hold on to that thought! Thanks for the reassurance.
Don't worry when she gets wind of him interested in other girls she'll want him back.
Bean17 · 51-55, F
Maybe. But she'll be thousands of miles away though, so it's not gonna happen. Plus, that's nothing new--she's had to get quite used to other girls wanting him. I guess we shall see.. But I know my daughter and she is not going to think that trying to maintain a long distance relationship is a good idea.
KelXtraAF · 31-35, F
Awe. That's so sweet. You seem like a very loving mother! Good job!
Bean17 · 51-55, F
Aww thank you!
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