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I Have to Keep Things In Perspective

Yesterday I spent the first hour of the day writing a letter to someone who owes me money from a long time ago. It is unlikely he'll answer or pay me. I had planned to post the letter here, but now I am not so sure I will do that.

Then the day took a turn for the worse...I lost my cell phone. I then spent the next four hours looking for it. Finally, a visitor to my rooming house tried to help me by calling my number in my room and near my car, the most likely places for it to wind up. No sound was heard. I drove about two miles to the store of my cell phone provider to see if they knew what to do; there was nothing they could do although they were sympathetic.

Finally, by accident, as I got ready to collapse on my bed after a too active day...I found my phone in a pile of catalogs and magazines next to my bed; when I'd searched for the phone, I kept picking up the pile of magazines to search, not realizing it had slipped into the pile. A prayer answered! I was exhausted but happy.

Before I fell asleep, I found out my roommate, Doc (his nickname), had collapsed with a stroke, then had a second stroke as the ambulance took him to the hospital. He is a very sick man whose has cancer. He went into a coma in the hospital and is not expected to make it.

Doc was friends with the roommate that died (in the same room which Doc then moved into), Jimmy, whom I wrote about in another post.

It's a lesson in perspective. All I lost was my cell phone, and then I found it. It now looks as if Doc is going to lose a lot more.

I am going to try and see if I can get into IT in the hospital and visit him, though I know he is unconscious. We are not close friends but we were friendly, and he has no family because, like me, he never married. I know what it's like to be alone.
FLami · 36-40, M
I gotta say I try to visit your profile as often as I can because I really like your stories ☺️ Much love and respect to you. Wishing Doc a speed recovery.
greenmountaingal · 70-79, F
@FLami Thank you. Doc is gone now. We are all sad here.
FLami · 36-40, M
@greenmountaingal Oh I'm so so so sorry for your loss. My sincerest condolences 😢
greenmountaingal · 70-79, F
Thank you.
Peppa · 31-35, F
Aww I felt so sad reading this... I know what's its like when you kind of sit on something not dealt with. When you finally approach it you're in a really angry place, which is so unhealthy. And the phone acts as a buffer for that negativity. Which if I'm honest is a blessing. It helped you release your emotions differently and see what a waste of energy it all was. Now poor Doc is sick which is incredibly unfortunate. And an even bigger server of a wake up call.
Seek love not war. Forgive and find peace. Life is too short to harbour such resentment in your heart.
I think doc will appreciate your visit.
Blessings to you both.
Peppa · 31-35, F
greenmountaingal · 70-79, F
@Peppa Didn't mean to sound like I did not appreciate your sympathetic post; just didn't want to make it look like I was suffering more than I was. Thanks for taking an interest and for your thoughtful reply.
Peppa · 31-35, F
@greenmountaingal it's ok. I re-read it after you responded I probably sounded a bit above my station so I just excepted it. Best wishes
Platoscave · F
love to you. amazing writer.
yes it is all about perspective.
No wonder they didn't discover that artistic concept till the early Renaissance.
They were too busy trying just to survive I guess...
heh

I also know about being on one's own.
Hugs to you💕
ms20182878 · 61-69, M
😢 BIG HUGS...
greenmountaingal · 70-79, F
According to the IC nurse, when I called yesterday, "He is no longer with us." Since I am not family, that's all they would tell me. I assume Doc is gone. I expect to hear more soon.
ms20182878 · 61-69, M

 
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