What feels worse?

To keep others. I believe we are all inherently good. We are also made to walk this earth with eachother not alone. Sw for example we seek eachother out. We are not solitary creatures even the weirdest darkest of us. To keep a secret especially something ill would weigh your conscious so bad. It would tear you up inside and knowing you are keeping something jeopardizes if your relationship is genuine or not.

To me it feels like the same kind of bad, from different sides.

Lying to your loves one sure would rank higher

Ignorance is bliss