Men: If you have ever been a victim of domestic abuse, I hope you got the support you needed.

It was long time ago best to jyst move on

.... most are afraid of the stigma or that they will not be believed.

Me too.

Fortunately no abuse yet. Hopefully never. Neglect, now that I've had and I feel for anyone trying to struggle through it.

I married a Scot. I knew the job was dangerous when I took it.

Abuse comes in many forms...emotional abuse...it’s out there. I was with someone once that just terrified And terrorized me!
I was young and stupid....It’s in the past.
I’m only disappointed in myself a bit that I stayed and took it.

Not exactly, since we had different addresses. Still needed the police (who gave the needed support)

Indeed. People need to take it as seriously as they do the reverse and not shame anyone for reporting it.