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Was this really so bad?

My sitter of 4 years gave a bad report on my 8 year old son today. She said-

1. He was not listening to her
2. Running around with a nerf gun and not wanting to do anything else.
3. Running round the house with silly outfits on and shouting out songs repeatedly.
4. Not settling to anything

Sitter seemed really angry. Am I wrong in thinking this is just normal 8 year old behavior and not really 'bad' ?
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BlueVeins · 22-25
Most of that stuff is pretty normal for an 8 year old, but you gotta teach 'im to listen to the sitter.
Harmonium1923 · 51-55, M
Sounds like he needed to get out of the house and burn off some energy. "Hey, see how fast you can run all the way over to that tree. Twenty seconds, nice! Now try to beat your record!"
FloorGenAdm · 51-55, M
Seems like something a school teacher would report on not a baby sitter.
QuixoticSoul · 41-45, M
It’s totally normal behavior - but too much normal 8-year old behavior is bad behavior.

Conversely, good behavior is being able to stop normal child behavior on command.
Butterflykisses24 · 51-55, F
If she's been with you 4 years and not normally complaining,I'd say something is up.
Butterflykisses24 · 51-55, F
@Jenni855 He was misbehaved.
Jenni855 · 36-40, F
@Butterflykisses24 Yes. Just feel it was a bit OTT on her side
Butterflykisses24 · 51-55, F
SW-User
I would seriously address #1 & #2 (#2 only if it was in the house and he wasn't supposed to be doing it) because they could be problematic. But #3 & #4 are just kid stuff.
Chevy454 · 46-50, M
It may be kinda normal, but it’s still bad behavior. And needs to be addressed.
SW-User
Its normal if you allow it. If you don't then its not normal.
CodeLyoko · 18-21, M
I can be see 1 and 4 of his mis behaving but weird how she reported him playing as being bad
jaymic64 · M
Sounds normal
SweetMae · 70-79, F
I would say his attitude while engaging in these activities could have been the problem. She has been with him long enough to know him well.
greenmountaingal · 80-89, F
Annoying but normal.
Sounds like a normal 8 year old.
But, I wasn't there. If I were you I would try to delve deeper into finding out what she means.
SW-User
Normal. She was pissed cause most likely he interrupted her quality time with her phone
Jenni855 · 36-40, F
@SW-User No, I resent that actually as she is in her thirties and very reliable.
ViciDraco · 41-45, M
After 4 years I'd imagine that she is familiar with his normal behavior and that this was not normal
BearDownChicago · 41-45, M
The not listening part is annoying but to you point all is part if a normal 8 year old
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What you are describing is normal. Is that what she is describing?
Justenjoyit · 61-69, M
Their is probably a reason why he is acting the way he is at your sisters house, He would not behaving like that in my house lol
Jenni855 · 36-40, F
@Justenjoyit It was in my own house and she is my sitter. So you don't think she was over reacting?

 
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