Tell me about it! My older daughters have smart phones but they need to earn their time on them. It's not carte blanche to use them as they see fit. And trust me there is monitoring software on there I know what they are doing and where they are at all times!
And you can forget about those girls trying to dress like little hussies and calling it "fashion"! We have a simple rule in the house as the girls have a school uniform so during school days they wear the uniform at home as well. On the weekends and holidays they may wear sensible jeans and tops though I think they know I prefer it when they wear a pretty girlish dress or skirt and top. They should look like kids!
