I Can't Believe How Hard It Is To Meet A Great Guy

Actually I Can Believe It For Me..... That Is... I've always went for assholes. Whether I realized they were that way then or not. But it's not their fault, it's my own. I have so many issues that I don't see the dysfunction when it is right in front of my face. So I'm sure there are plenty of great guys out there. But I've probably rejected them or scared them off. No one wants someone with issues, but can you really blame them?
You need to be happy with you and your life, or at least comfortable before you bring someone else into it. I'm sure the good guys see the dysfunction and are alike oh hell no. But to be honest I don't blame them.
So I know why it's hard to find nice guys.
Don't let them in or they run away.