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I Can't Stand It When People Blame The Victim

I know what my friend has done isn't right, but she is still human.
She was beaten up by her bfs children's mother out in front of her home and her bf said she was to blame for her beating THEN made her drop the charges against the woman who beat her up.
His excuse for the charges to be dropped was because he was afraid she wouldn't be able to get a job....


She tried to break up with him multiple times and each time he manipulated her into not leaving him. Well.... now she's dealing with this.

To see my friend broken down by this breaks my heart. How can this person blame her for getting beaten like she did when he was the cheater.
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Miram · 31-35, F
Did she leave him? She needs to.
@Miram no, she didn't. I can't make her and she stood there crying and crying and crying..... she says she's laying in her bed

I fb'd her daughter to call me and she did. I told her daughter what I saw and that she has to please plan a trip out here to make her presence. For this man to see that he has a woman with children that care for her. Right now, she is all by herself here and no one to stand up for her but me and I can't be the only one.
Then speaking to her daughter, revealed sooooo much more about her behavior that I had no idea