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I Want to Move Out of My Parents House

Hi
I'm Tim
Mom's been crazy ever since I came out, sometimes she acts like she use to, not enough though,
I had to move in with my granny for a little while before because of her acting like a crazy lady....
Schools started back and I been grounded for almost my whole break, just because she said so.....
I thinking it time to see if granny will let me stay with her again. I love my mom but she probably better off with out me to worry about, I don't give her a reason to worry, it's because I'm gay is all, I try to be a good son and listen to her. I'm 16 and need to think for myself, I don't know what else to do. I tried everything thing I can think of, except being someone I'm not, I can't change who I am inside and won't play straight to make her happy, I would be lying to myself. Thanks for listening to me.
Tim

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I know how you feels, i used to think i should have never came out to my mom about being transgender. Because for 2 years she didn't care i wore boy clothes and she didn't mind i had mid length hair but when i came out she yelled at me and said i will never be her son. My parental also grounded me from the internet the long time and made me get a girl haircut until i asked to even it and "messed up" so i had short hair again. Then it was summer and i had to get my hair fixes before school but then i was no longer aloud to have girls or boys come over because or have anyone spend the night because they claimed i was having sex even though I'm still a virgin. Then they made me grow my hair out for 7 months until i broke in tears and begged for a haircut then my stepdad said "do whatever the fuck i want" but when i did he took away the wifi again. But before i turned 16 i moved out and i broke my mom's heart and not until then she realized i would never be a girl. I came out 3 1/2 years ago and she understands I'm transgender but she still calls me a girl but I'm aloud to have short hair but i still can't have anyone spend the night. It's a progress one day she will understand.

timjusttim123 · 22-25, M

Brother my mom understands now more than before, pop talked to mom about it, and even granny, but granny didn't care if I was gay she loves me all the same, mom thought I had a mental illness, pop Rick explained to her I guess, they never telled me what was said, I know she said she doesn't like pops but say she would like to talk to him again hehe, any progress is good, that show they willing to move your way, I have problems still but they not as bad as before, you gots to be who you are that's all
Thing going to get better ever day brother don't give up