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I Am Falling For Someone I've Never Met

Okay , so this is a serious post. Have any of you feel like you are falling or maybe attracted to someone you have never seen or met? Some times,i feel this way. At the same time it crushes me up when i realize these these dreams or fantasies that i make will never be fulfilled.

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Justme264 · 70-79, M

Enjoy it for what it is - if the dreams never come true does it matter? Yo have had the dream and the pleasure of it.

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RainRiverton · 22-25, F

@Justme264 yeah maybe ;)

Justme264 · 70-79, M

@RainRiverton I was thinking "as in the emotional sense". Crushes and fantasy can cheer us up immensely - they have helped me on occasions.

RainRiverton · 22-25, F

@Justme264 it has got both positive and negative effects. Sometimes it cheers us up emotionally. And at the same time it could make us feel shattered . ;) you are right 😃

NeuroticByNature · 41-45, F

We sometimes fantasize to fill in gaps in our life. One day a life will materialize for you. Then you will no longer have a need for that.

RainRiverton · 22-25, F

@NeuroticByNature that is so true. 😊 we still gotta wait a lot for that love.

NeuroticByNature · 41-45, F

@RainRiverton yes. Dont focus your life on it though. It will happen. Worry more about your own personal growth and lifes journey outside of a lover. You cant count on someone else always being there. You should find your own peace.

RainRiverton · 22-25, F

@NeuroticByNature another good reply. Thankyou for your concern 😁❤

Harper · 26-30, F

I only have felt this way on people who I met online, but not irl, at least not yet. But falling in love with only the idea? Well, we can always fall in love with any one. Maybe this is just your natural state of missing someone yoi haven't met because all humans feel this way, we are sociable People anyway.

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Harper · 26-30, F

How will I cope with not meeting them yet? Or how will I cope with falling in love with an imagination? Well, first of all if it is an imagined state, that means your mind created it. Which means, you are actually falling in love with yourself because your mind is part of you xD The best solution is to ask yourself WHY you have this intricate or detailed idea. For exmaple, If you're falling in love with a supposed hunky man, then shouldn't you ask why you seek for a hot or muscled man? perhaps you have the need to be protected by a strong man, and from then you ask, "do I feel weak? Am I weak?" And there you have it. If you were weak, then you better yourself. Self deliberation deletes disillusion most of the time. The same goes to online relationships.

RainRiverton · 22-25, F

@Harper god this was an amazing reply. I like the way you analysed the situation. These imagination really disturb sometimes hahaha. Thank you for your comment 😀😁

Harper · 26-30, F

@RainRiverton haha you're welcome! :D

SW-User

Like online relationships?

RainRiverton · 22-25, F

@SW-User dating is far away. According to me online dating does not really exist. We just claim to be in relation for maybe exchanging pictures (nudes) and ily bla bla and cheesy fake texts which dont mean anything. ;)

SW-User

@RainRiverton Then I don’t get your question.

RainRiverton · 22-25, F

@SW-User that is alright😅

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