How will I cope with not meeting them yet? Or how will I cope with falling in love with an imagination? Well, first of all if it is an imagined state, that means your mind created it. Which means, you are actually falling in love with yourself because your mind is part of you xD The best solution is to ask yourself WHY you have this intricate or detailed idea. For exmaple, If you're falling in love with a supposed hunky man, then shouldn't you ask why you seek for a hot or muscled man? perhaps you have the need to be protected by a strong man, and from then you ask, "do I feel weak? Am I weak?" And there you have it. If you were weak, then you better yourself. Self deliberation deletes disillusion most of the time. The same goes to online relationships.