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SW-User
It's more like scarification than actual healing. Yes, both go away, but one leaves a visible mark
Kimmerrose · 31-35, F
I lost him in 2013 held his hand till his passing.
That feeling will never go away
That feeling will never go away
SW-User
@Kimmerrose: No, it won't. What I meant was, that while healing simply removes all traces of harm (in this case the death of your Pop), really it's something more like a scar in that the feelings subside in intensity (and you learn to cope with and manage the feelings) and you heal somewhat, the scar of what happens is always there.
Sorry, I don't think I'm getting what I want to say here across very well
Sorry, I don't think I'm getting what I want to say here across very well
Kimmerrose · 31-35, F
Your fine I'm not mad. I u deratnd what you are saying like I told the other guy starting from 2013 till now I have lost in 3 years 13 people that I love. It's heartbreaking.
SW-User
@Kimmerrose: I'm so sorry for all your losses *hugs*
Kimmerrose · 31-35, F
Thanks