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I Have Infertility

i cant get pregnant and i dont know why ive tried so many times with my boyfriend i feel like its not gonna happen
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88SniperJoel · 18-21, M
Im confused...your previous post said you have been with your boyfriend for 3yrs and you want to start now but he wants to wait. But this post says you've tried so many times you feel like its not going to happen?

How long have you actually been trying for?
Introvert21 · 22-25, F
@88SniperJoel we always had unprotected sex but if i bring up anything about a baby he starts wearing a condom so ive tried of and on many times right now he thinks im on birth control but i stop taking it 2 months ago and im still not pregnant i had a felling if i told him i wasnt taking the pill hed stop doing it to me i want us both to want to do it when we were in the beginning of our relationship he wanted to do it i dont know
88SniperJoel · 18-21, M
@Introvert21 If you only went off birth control 2 months ago then at best you have only had 1 - maybe 2 good ovulation cycles. The chances of getting pregnant at the best of times is really low - its only like 15 - 20% or something like that in any given month (unless you don't actually want to be pregnant and its a one night stand with a douche bag, then its like 98.3%)….so you need to try for like 6 months, at the right time etc - then if something hasn't happened by then you might need to see someone.
Chances are if you go and see someone now they will probably tell you to try a little longer anyway - unless they notice something obvious in your health or lifestyle etc.
Introvert21 · 22-25, F
@88SniperJoel we onlu have sex once a week sometime on the same day we have sex twice
88SniperJoel · 18-21, M
@Introvert21 Well that's not really trying though...you would be better off having sex like 3 times a week, every second day or something rather than once a week on the same day. But anyway...just google it, there is heaps of info out there.
Introvert21 · 22-25, F
@88SniperJoel 😔 ugh id have to move back in with him to get his time like that
88SniperJoel · 18-21, M
@Introvert21 Well then I guess you don't have an infertility issue...you have a living arrangements issue. lol
Introvert21 · 22-25, F
@88SniperJoel 😂😂😂 youre funny
88SniperJoel · 18-21, M
@Introvert21 lol...glad I can help.
Introvert21 · 22-25, F
@88SniperJoel lol yeah thanks