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@AgapeLove morbid fascination. My ex was a cheater. When I found out, offered to play. For some people, when spouse knows the fun is gone.

@AgapeLove I was cheated on and I do not approve of cheating. It is selfish and dishonest.

These cuckold and hitwife groups are consensual. One spouse is not going behind tbe back of another.

Whether you agree or not, they are being honest with each other, not hiding. Its a choice they decide to try.

Sorry to hear about your cousin and his wife. That must have been painful. Most men would go find another woman to play with, or get a divorce.

@AgapeLove LOL. That falls into the "Be careful of what you ask for. You just might get it".

in a curious way, he got what he wanted. His wife is probably enjoying other men, and he is enjoying the humiliation.

Just because you might not understand it, does not automatically make it wrong.

@AgapeLove I said might not understand.

You are aking for a moral judgement, I offered none so you call me a sex pervert. How presumptious.

You agree most, if not all have fantasies.

You thump your chest, proudly proclaiming you have fantasies you'll never act on (proclaiming your superiority).

So is someone acting on their fantasies, even if poor choice, inferior?

There is this thing called free will. We make choices.
Some people make good choices. Some make poor choices. Some make bad choices.

There's ego, pride and hubris. Fly too close to the sun and your wax wings may melt.

In your illustration, the man chose sex. Could have been drugs. Same psychology.

Some one made a choice. Someone discovered that reality did not match their fantasy. Someone lost it. We teach our children there are natural consequences to the actions we make.

You assume tbere is no love. Try being married to someone who is a sex addict. They worship sex? Its more like a drug addict's need for a fix.

You assume I am a loveless, lustful pervert.

Have you considered that most of these groups generally have the man's perspective; where the woman is a sexual object to be manipulated for the man's pleasure.

If anything, these memes may serve to show that the woman may very well react in a manner that the man does not anticipate. The woman is a sexual being too, not a toy to be put into play.

The reality of the woman's reaction to the situation, may not approximate the man's preconcieved fantasy. The train can jump the tracks.

Be careful what you wish for, you just might get it.

Was it John Wayne who said 'You can't fix stupid'?

You say I am a unfeeling sexual pervert because I say the man in your example got what he asked for.

If the man chose drugs instead of sex, does that make me a heartless drug dealer?

Take your soap box elsewhere if all you are going to do is be rude and rant.

@AgapeLove 😂😂😂 you are so presumptious, arrogant and full of yourself.

Now you think I am into BDSM as well as being amoral and like Hitler and Stalin. Sweet! That's funny.

No I would not think it sexy. But it could be hard to feel sorry for somebody who made bad choices. Some might say risky or stupid choices.

You seem to find things are starkly black and white. That's nice.

You are not listening, you are too busy ranting. I said if the man chose drugs instead of sex. I did not say I sold them drugs. You twist it to suit you.

Again free will - if someone choses:

To voluntarily take drugs;
Voluntarily have MMF sex;
Gamble away their rent or food money;
Steal property or rob someone...

They made decisions. They paid their money and took their chances. They face the natural consequences of their actions.

You can be self aware, empathetic, commiserate and feel sorry for them. Maybe pat them on the back or hug them.

Its interesting that you console and comisserate with your friend. Isn't his condition the direct result of his ego and hubris? Making a choice you likely would find unethical and immoral. Would I say kind words, sure. Would I feel sorry for him? It was his choice. Its not like he was attacked and a gang of men had sex with his wife, taunting and humiliating him.

Oh and when a couple decides to play with others, that is their choice. When one spouse cheats behind the other's back - that is dishonest, selfish and breaking a commitment.

I have wasted too much time on this already. Your mind is made up.

My ex-spouse was a cheater when I would be out of town. After we seperated, ex-spouse continued to have fun, but ended up with herpes. Should I have been empathetic, sympathize and say something nice. Or did they reap the natural consequences of their actions. Berate me if you wish, but I wasn't exactly in a touchy feely kumbyyah mood. If your spouse does that, how empathetic will you be?

There are plenty of social injustices for you to trumpet about. Sally forth! Do good.