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I Have Issues With My Family

I didn't know where else to post this, so I posted this here.

I feel like I should just give up on my mom's side. They never call my bro or I at all to see how we are doing. We do most of the calling. I mean I understand we all have busy lives. I get that, but we aren't that busy. They're our family and we don't wanna give up but they don't talk to us so that's why we don't call or talk to them much. I talk to one of my aunts and my mom and that's it.
My dad isn't having that and that pisses him off. I don't blame him for that. He's been telling us about they don't seem to care but I didn't wanna see that. He thinks they forgotten about us. They talk to each other I witnessed, I don't know about every person but they don't call us? I messaged them two months ago or last that my bro and I are coming into down to visit our dad's side for the family reunion and also to visit other family but neither of them responded to that. We don't even know if we're still going because of the damn Covid 19.
Last time we came, neither of them came to visit us accept my one of my cousins. That was it. They seemed happy to see us or hear from us but I don't think they are. I don't know. I'm done. I just don't know anymore. Whatever. At least I have my dad's side of the family and of course my Daddy. They seem to care more about my bro and I than my mom's side. Should I just give up?
I don't want too but they never call so we don't call them. I shouldn't get anxious about it but I am. They don't seen to respond when I message then in the messenger group I am in (cousins).
I just don't see no point in contacting them. I did what I could but I'm done.
If they ask why we haven't called, well they should themselves that.
DiegoWolfe · 36-40
The sad truth is that family no longer means what it once did. Gone are the days when your mom's sister would ask abiut you and contact you to hear what your day was like... my mother's sister fathered buy milk than visit her own father for dinner one day when he was still alive. Aunts and uncles are fucking jokes and should be gotten rid of as fast as possible
@DiegoWolfe Wow sorry to hear that. When my mom used to live with us, the family would call but now, they stopped. I don't even know if I want to see my mom's side now. They never respond to me anyways. I'm done
olderCanuck · 70-79, M
I went through the same thing when my children were growing up I wanted them to know both sides of the family ,, but it was not to happen ,,, we lived to far away and they could not be bothered to call or visit so I just said the heck with it ,,, and lived life ,, my children have a family if they want it and if not we have each other ,,, to much stress not required ,,, we live a lot better now ,,,
olderCanuck · 70-79, M
@CraftyMarieArts You are most welcome ,, Take care ,, and Have a grand life ,,,
@olderCanuck you too
olderCanuck · 70-79, M
@CraftyMarieArts
Thank you ,,,,
Montanaman · M
I feel you. No one calls on my side of the family. My wife's side, calls almost every day and vice versa 🥰😔🤗🤷
Families are complex businesses.
I feel for you.
@BridgeOvertroubledWaters I'm done with my mom's side, accept for my aunt and mom of course.
@CraftyMarieArts I can't blame you
Sounds like your dad has a temper
@SStarfish No he doesn't. He just doesn't like the way they're acting.

 
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