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how long do you hold grudges against people

goliathtree · 56-60, M
except for one, I never hold grudges. That one grudge however is till death.
for as long as they are the same person 😁
greenmountaingal · 70-79, F
Holding a grudge, in terms of remaining angry, is not a good idea; it can poison your life and thinking. But as far as retaining awareness, I believe that it's generally best to keep a red flag out when it comes to some people and situations. In other words, the answer to the question about how long to hold a "grudge" is...as long as they're still dangerous.
NankerPhelge · 61-69, M
If it's for false accusation, I hold a grudge permanently. I absolutely never forgive false accusation under any circumstances.
SW-User
Very short time. But it can go 2 ways - I forget about it and we go on or I forget about it and about them too.
SW-User
It depends

Forever I guess
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@MaterialGirlCx: walks on egg shells
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@theowl: you bitch!!!!!
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@MaterialGirlCx:
katielass · F
i don't hold grudges. Waste of time and effort.
NankerPhelge · 61-69, M
@katielass: Not even if someone falsely accuses you of something after 1970?
katielass · F
@Bottomschmackenloudenboomer: I have been falsely accused of saying things but I have also found that the liar usually gets caught and exposes herself. That is my revenge and I don't have to lift a finger.
WildHeart · 41-45, F
Usually lasts for a short period only goes away when I cut all ties with the person
Peaceful · F
I don't. I feel whatever pain was inflicted on me and I learn from it.
QueenPeach · 26-30, F
QueenPeach · 26-30, F
@theowl: that's me 😌
SW-User
tries not to get on your bad side
QueenPeach · 26-30, F
@theowl: :(
SW-User
life is too short man
coolboy86 · 36-40, M
no its not
londongirl2 · 31-35, F
until i die, i am a stubborn bitch
TheCoolestCat · 31-35, M
not long but some will never fade
MasterofNone · 26-30, M
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I don't hold grudges
Mrsbetweenfatandfit · 26-30, F
Not too long I forgave nearly everyone who has ever hurt me
SW-User
@betweenfatandfit: thats quite forgiving lol
Mrsbetweenfatandfit · 26-30, F
@theowl: It hurts yourself the most to carry anger for others

 
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