Did you grow up in a tactile, loving childhood?

Yes, I was lucky to have a loving grandmother who practically raised me and she always gave me awesome cuddles.

Yes I did and it was and is a great blessing.
Is it possible really to learn that later?

I suppose I'm similar. I wouldn't say my childhood was in any way bad or depriving. But my parents had certain stereotypes of how people should be that they enforced and we were carted off to Sunday school from early on into my teenage years too that reinforced some of that.

But I do now hugger people - I think I'm a bit of a hugger - family, close friends etc. I'll often go in for the hug.

Tactics were always taken very seriously in my home cleaning and maintaining tools for defense were of the up most of importants.

No. Displays of affection private or otherwise aren't a "thing" in the culture my parents grew up in.

Saaaaaammmme I'm still learning tho.

No. I'm still learning how to let others, especially strangers in my physical space

Yes affection and love were not deprived from me.

Yes, my Mom was always hugging me.

I don't hug:(

No.

No. I grew up with hate, yelling, anger and fear.