Why do most guys think guys wanna use women as f buddies and use them?
My crush broke my heart a couple of weeks ago and when I told him I thought about him he felt uncomfortable. He said that he doesn’t see me more than just a friend who wants to use me as a buddy or pal. He said also that frankly that makes him very uncomfortable because we are such great friends m, he values our friendship too much and he doesn’t want to break that friendship so dating me would be very uncomfortable.
This is what this asshole on here told me, “ no your statement of above is what I'm talking about he is your crush meaning you don't have an actual physical relationship of being boyfriend and girlfriend and if he wants to use you as a buddy that means you to are probably already have any sex which means you were having sex casually with someone you did not actually have a relationship with just a crush on. I have no problem with how many people a woman has sex with you just have to understand most men do not want the mother of their child and the person they want to introduce to their family should be someone that just let some f*** them all the time or did they hooked up with at a party. Respect yourself make the man expect you and want you so you can have a relationship instead of just a f*** buddy.”
Can you believe he said that?! I’ve known my girlfriend for about two or three years he’s is one of the most kindhearted guys ever. Boys and men are so brutal when it comes to men.