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Is something wrong?

Several things happened recently, and I don't know if I have unnecessary concerns or something is actually wrong.

Ten days ago, my GF suggested we stop using Whatsapp because of the recent issues related to that app and move to another texting app instead. She said she is going to use Whatsapp only for work and not for her personal life anymore.

Last week, she had some problems with her laptop and asked me to help her. She was sharing her desktop screen on Skype, so I could see what is wrong. She opened a window, and suddenly she panicked and stopped sharing the screen like there was something I shouldn't have seen. It was a bit awkward.

Four days ago, we talked on the phone, and I asked her a simple question like if she would study tomorrow. She got irritated and hung up. Since then, we have barely talked.

I checked her Whatsapp, and I saw she is online there quite a lot after work hours.

Because of my experience with a cheating girlfriend, I am having bad feelings about it.
Do you think this is justified, or am I just overthinking?
If it was me I would be suspicious....ask about her whatsapp activity that she says she doesnt trust. If you dont get a reasonable answer go no contact with her for a while & see what happens.

What is the issue with whats app as I use it?
LookingForTheSummer · 31-35, M
@Cutiepi23 Yes, I am suspicious, too. But I haven't asked her about it yet because I don't want to sound like a controlling or stalking person. For now, I am keeping the distance as well to see what is going to happen. However, I cannot stop thinking about it.

About Whatsapp:

https://www.androidpolice.com/2021/01/17/whatsapp-is-trying-its-best-to-keep-users-from-switching-to-signal-and-telegram/
You don't need to ask us to know what we think........do you? What maters is what you think and you know ur seeing more red flags with GF than you see on a highway project. You know the answer to what your asking. Start looking for the next GF.
LookingForTheSummer · 31-35, M
@anythingoes477 You are right. I just wanted to see it from different points of view.
SW-User
Sounds like shiest to me also. Just ask her directly. Doesn't mean she'll fess up but you can read her.
LookingForTheSummer · 31-35, M
@SW-User Maybe I should ask her about it, but I don't want to sound like I control her or I'm stalking.
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LookingForTheSummer · 31-35, M
@LoveTriumphsOverHate At that time, I thought maybe she was tired or out of the mood, which might have been the reason for not taking it well and hanging up.
But now that I am thinking about all these things that happened recently, I am starting to feel bad about it.

 
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