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Do you think this user was rude and a bully when she said this to me?

Not telling you her username. Got respect her privacy. When I can complained about my best friends yelling at me for screaming at them when I’m the one that asked for the truth and kept complaining about my mom leaving us.
This is what this mean girl said:
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Eternity · 22-25, M
He is absolutely right and you need to stop obsessing over this. It's unhealthy.
[@807598,Eternity] Its a she but she bullied me by calling me ugly.
Eternity · 22-25, M
[@1132160,SweetiePieLay] that is not what she said. You need to read it again because you missed the point.
[@807598,Eternity] She was mean and hurt my feelings
Archtiger · 26-30, M
That’s a good friend. Truth hurts. She’s not bullying you simply because you don’t like her words. To use your own words, “stop being a snowflake.”
[@1166718,argusfiltch22] She isnt no friend of mine! I’m surprise she would have friends. She’s a bully and called me ugly. What do you mean by snowflake?
Archtiger · 26-30, M
[@1132160,SweetiePieLay] I’m not continuing this. You don’t actually want responses, you want attention. If you wanted responses, you wouldn’t call the people who disagreed with you “meanie.”
No. You just didn’t like what you read.
[@207746,CereBellum] If course I didn’t! She was rude and called me ugly. Duh! That’s bullying. She could have said it in a nicer way. Rude bully.
[@1132160,SweetiePieLay] She didn’t call you ugly, just your behavior. Sounds as if you are upset about your mother. I get it.
Word of advice : don't think too much. 😁
[@1158409,littlepuppywantanewlife] 🙄
Aquarius39 · 41-45, F
No she wasn't bullying you or trying to be rude. She just wanted to be honest with you, even though it may not be what you wanted to hear.
[@679565,Aquarius39] Thank you!!! I should not have to drag this out of you! Or anyone else 🙄
She was being rude to me.
Aquarius39 · 41-45, F
[@1132160,SweetiePieLay] Welcome, don't let it get to you.
[@679565,Aquarius39] I’m going to report that person. She needs to be nicer or people won’t wanna talk to HER!
Archtiger · 26-30, M
https://similarworlds.com/2-Community/3653850-I-hate-you-guys-and-I-hate-this-website
This was your post, correct?
[@1166718,argusfiltch22] Meanie! 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
Archtiger · 26-30, M
[@1132160,SweetiePieLay] I’m beginning to think you’re a troll account. Not an insult, just a suspicion based upon your posts and responses.
no I’m not please[@1166718,argusfiltch22]
Nephew ·
Sometimes the truth isn't what you'd prefer to hear at all.
[@1010068,EternalEfflorescence] DONT TALK TO ME YOU TRAITOR!!!!!
Archtiger · 26-30, M
[@1010068,EternalEfflorescence] This account is a troll account. Look at her responses and how she approaches them. It’s too illogical.
[@1166718,argusfiltch22] TRAITOR! Don’t talk to me anymore!!!!!
Pinkstarburst · 51-55, F
True friends are brutally honest...that’s what they are for and would expect you to be the same. Sometimes we need hear things we don’t like.

As for the ugly statement, she did t call YOU ugly...she called your behavior ugly. There’s a huge difference.
[@6912,Pinkstarburst] Well I guess she was brutally honest since she was rude to me! She said “Best friends are supposed to tell it like it is.” True but they don’t need to be brutally honest and hurt my feelings. 😤😤🤬🙄
lost213 · 41-45, M
She said your behavior was ugly. Not you. But she is right. And if you don’t want to hear the truth then don’t ask for it. Because a good friend will tell you the truth whether you like it or not. Even when your behavior is ugly.
[@379992,lost213] Yeah that’s true but they don’t have to be jerks and hurt my feelings.
lost213 · 41-45, M
[@1132160,SweetiePieLay] I don’t think her intention was to be rude. But more so to emphasize the magnitude of your behavior so to use the word ugly would clearly show how she felt your behavior was towards her. Which to me sounds like she was just as upset as you were. Just food for thought.

 
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