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My friend has been in a relationship for two years . She has her own house does everything for him yet he won't commit 100% to her what's his problem
He is cold towards her yet he says he loves her !so confusing !
36-40, F
+ 12 39 replies 52 views Nov 2, 2016 |
TheCoolestCat · 31-35, M
pfffft so?
AnukBinary · 36-40, M
How do you mean commit?
LJW35 · 36-40, F
@AnukBinary: no its nothing like that he just seems like a commitment phobe !but it's not fair on her .
AnukBinary · 36-40, M
@Raingirl82: oh okay.. Yeah its not fair, however on a lighter note at least he's being honest. And they've been together for two years. That's pretty committed other than the fact he should put all in instead of 80%
LJW35 · 36-40, F
Yeah 100% would make her feel more secure
TicklyWhiskers · 22-25, F
Sounds like a personal problem of his. There's likely a reason she's still with him that you don't get to see when you're around them.
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Why buy the cow when you get the milk for free?
LJW35 · 36-40, F
Hmm yeah heard that before
Mugin16 · 41-45, M
Do they live together? What does she do for him?
Mugin16 · 41-45, M
@LJW35: Good for her. Did she give him an ultimatum?
LJW35 · 36-40, F
@Mugin16: She basically told him to commit or go away - he seems to have had an attitude adjustment and is now being a good bf :-)
Mugin16 · 41-45, M
@LJW35: I thought that was necessary. Sounds like she has him well trained now. ;-)
Coppercoil · M
He must be really good in bed if all that is true and she doesn't dump him.
Kindheartedguy · 41-45, M
Is she happy?
LJW35 · 36-40, F
no at the moment - but think its just because he wont commit and she is fed up with it !
Kindheartedguy · 41-45, M
I think when you are single, you do what makes you happy. The single years are too precious to waste on something like that.

If you meet someone who you can continue your happiness with... that's who you work on.
bhatjc · 41-45, M
Sounds like she needs to find a new man in her life
bhatjc · 41-45, M
Is he living in the house as well. Maybe he has issues with comment
LynnSW68 · 51-55, F
She should get him out of there fast before it's too late, he is using her for what he can get and as time goes by he will get worse towards her and she will regret letting him control her like this.

 
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