Do fathers and other male influences really have a big impact on how a kid grows up to be?

Wraithorn · 56-60, M

I have one child, a daughter, I naturally thought that I as her father wouldn't have much of an influence on her.

Also, because I was an absent father to begin with and only knew her from the age of 12, I thought I would be even less of an influence. That's not true though, she told me so herself.

Platinum · M

Both mother and fathers have so much influence on how the child turns out....I've got four and they are all great kids...

Picklebobble2 · 56-60, M

Of course.
Children are influenced by the environment in which they are raised.

It's well documented how boys in particular respond better to male influences as they grow.
Hence why many parents prefer male Teachers for their boys.

SW-User

I think they can. But, depending on the female role models, I don't always think they are necessary.

LAlexV · M

if they’re present they have just as much impact as mothers i think..

Thinkerbell · 41-45, F

Yes, for good or ill, depending on what kind of fathers they are.

revenant · F

yes, fathers in general tend to promote individuality and courage

vivianoblivion · 26-30, F

My dad was a huge influence on how I am now.

Quizzical · 46-50, M

Definitely

Justenjoyit · 61-69, M

Absolutely, without question.