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For what reason would you want to still be on speaking terms with an ex ? 🤔

I'm referring to exes you don't have kids with or anything like that so you don't have to talk to them
rckt148 · 61-69, M
If I ever loved you ,I don't know how to stop
I spent today with 2 ex's and 2 ex mother in laws
I also learned to forgive ,and in turn I have been forgiven

The love of my life ,the one I just knew would never hurt me was there too
It took me 7 yrs to speak to her again
Now she is telling me she is not happy ,she made a huge mistake
but now she has 2 kids by a man she don't love

They are the only reason I don't beg her to come home
and I actually just bought a new house and she said she would like for us to date
But I am not sure I want the drama of a baby Daddy
and she did leave me while my Mom was dying
But I never stop loving someone I loved

I can however make a mature decision ,to leave her be
she left me before ,why would I think she couldn't do it again ?

If you are asking because you're man still speaks to his ex
try asking him ,,that is why my ex's are ex's
we stopped talking ,and being honest with one another

If you feel you are gonna get hurt ,why not make it sooner then later
I wish this one had been honest with me ,,
maybe I would have been willing to fix the problem she left me over
She was my world
but she destroyed who I was when she left me
But it does feel so nice having her back in my life

Its kind of a family joke now ,that all my ex's still love me and
now its me that could care less about wanting them back
but I do still love them all
JBird · F
The nature of breakup. If he broke up with me in a polite way, I would be friends with him. He could have come up to me and admit that he have no interest in me anymore instead of cheating, then blaming it on me when caught and lying about it. Unfortunately, none of the guys I have dated before had the balls to say the truth. Last ex I met recently even had the guts to lie that I 'misinterpreted' his relationship with me and he didn't want to date me in the first place. I remember him making the move first, sending me a romantic valentine's day card and a rose, made out with me, got jealous when a guy flirted with me and wanted me to accept Hinduism because he's Hindu and wanted to marry me. What a lying piece of sh*t. So I am not in speaking terms with any of those cheating assholes.
Shayla · F
Because we split on good terms and have both chosen to maintain a friendship
Shayla · F
@RiviereArgent Mine are more mature than that. I don't blame anyone for their feelings, but it's not my responsibility to care.
RiviereArgent · 22-25, F
@Shayla Sadly mine isn't mature at all. This one still lives with his grandma and spends all day on a ps4 when he is 21.
Shayla · F
@RiviereArgent That happens. Next time try dating someone more grown up.
swandfriends · 41-45, F
There's just some people you end up having a stronger soul connection with and can't let go of them completely
SW-User
Well the only one I speak to I do so because we started out as very good friends and a relationship wasn't what we were looking for, it just happened. We parted ways as partners under very good terms for all I know we could be again someday it just isn't the time now. We still enjoy speaking to each other, so we continue as friends. 🤷🏻‍♂️
SW-User
If you have kids, it’s better for them if you remain civil.
EnigmaticGeek · 61-69, M
If we're still friends and/or are in business together.
raysam363 · 31-35, F
Shared bank account.
Prettybratbi1tch · 26-30, F
@raysam363 😂😂
raysam363 · 31-35, F
@Prettybratbi1tch Oh that monster put some money on that card. She agreed to pay it herself, but still.
ViciDraco · 36-40, M
I generally like my exes as people. Just because an intimate relationship didn't work out doesn't mean they aren't still cool people.
Shared Netflix account.
Possibly someone with whom I’d had a friendship before things became romantic. I am on speaking terms with everyone I’ve dated who’s still living.

 
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