😭 help a guy I've only met once wants a weekend get away!

So it's the same army guy he wants to meet again but he wants a full weekend away somewhere and I think that's going to fast. How can tell him? He already thinks I'm avoiding him 🙁

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Adaydreambeliever · 56-60, F

I am afraid he should respect your wishes.. if you feel it's too soon then it IS.. If you aren't sure, or you just want to take more time - a whole weekend could prove torture if you find you can't bear him.
I hate to be cynical.. but I suspect he wants to consummate the relationship and going away for a weekend is likely to ensure that happpens

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Silentangel · 26-30, F

@Adaydreambeliever he's confusing really 🤷 never met anyone so confused about what they want and such

Adaydreambeliever · 56-60, F

@Silentangel he sounds confused.. but whatever happens his confusion, his drinking, his anything don't come before your own needs and what you want x

Silentangel · 26-30, F

@Adaydreambeliever definitely agreed, he's also not used to someone like me that's able to challenge his thoughts and get what his heads going through etc