What would you do, if you found out that your loved one was pregnant and got an abortion? and didn't tell you about it

I'd ask how she got pregnant since I'm gay

I would be heartbroken, hurt, and wonder why they chose as they did and didn't feel they could tell me. But at the end of the day, my job is dealing with all of those emotions and still showing love to my loved one. I truly hope I would maintain that perspective and focus on them and their needs first, and deal with my own emotions later.

I would wonder on why she didn't communicate this. What are the trust issues? I would be extra supportive. I would talk it out until I had no more words. Vent. And decide if I wanted to stay in a relationship where such a secret of such enormous magnitude wasn't shared with me. Was I being all I could be in a loving relationship? Did I want a child? Was birth control being used and agreed upon mutually? There are so many layers to this, just like peeling an onion.

A true friend is who accepts your past, supports your present, and encourages your future.

When you truly care for someone, their mistakes never change your feelings for them because it's the mind that gets angry but the heart still cares.

I would try to understand why she got the abortion and help her deal with the aftermath of such a decision.

I dont know.. I dont think I have the ability to get someone pregnant.

Be shocked af I got someone pregnant

I’d never bring it up.

Was it mine though?

Ask the vet why

nothing?