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In what way has your upbringing affected you?

LadyWioness · 56-60, F
I'm conscious of other people. I try to have manners. I said please today, well, actually it was bitch please, but whatever lol
On a serious note, I have a great work ethic, and I am articulate and kind because of my upbringing.
Peekatyou · 46-50, F
Very nice. And funny..!
LadyWioness · 56-60, F
Thanks ☺
Flutterby9812 · 56-60, F
Made me hardworking and compassionate. Taught me to appreciate beauty and to persevere in the face of obstacles.
Peekatyou · 46-50, F
Lovely. You are fortunate indeed. 💜
Flutterby9812 · 56-60, F
@Peekatyou: Yes I had amazing grandparents, and great aunts. My dad was my hero.
SW-User
My family were working class. I'll never identify as anything other.
Both my grandfathers were dead when I was born so I didn't have them as role models.
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I'd have to say it affected me a lot, in both good and bad ways, but part of the way I react to it is because of what's hard wired into my personality.

I'm resilient, more patient, understand people better... But I also struggle with my self-esteem. The latter is probably the only negative effect that I can think of, but it's a big one.
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@Peekatyou: thank you... It is a struggle, I find that I always need to have people remind me of my worth.. May not be the healthiest solution, but I really don't think I can get by without others.
Peekatyou · 46-50, F
I was never taught unconditional self worth either, so I struggle with this greatly myself. I often tell others they are worthy of everything life has to offer, just the same as the next person, but I have a hard time believing it for myself. I hope you can find it for yourself.
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@Peekatyou: I'm the same way. Thank you, I hope you find it too 😊
SweetMae · 70-79, F
In many ways. It wasn't a happy time.
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SweetMae · 70-79, F
Thank you. They are better now!
Peekatyou · 46-50, F
@SweetMae: glad to know that! 😄
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Thought me to be mentally strong and taught me that I can overcome the worse life has to offer and that's it's possible to grow without love but still be able to love and be a good person even if brought up by uncaring and bad ppl
Peekatyou · 46-50, F
Chantou, this is what life should be. So proud of you and happy for you!
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@Peekatyou: thank you
plungesponge · 41-45, M
I was raised by narcissists so it was a pretty moral-less self-serving environment. I think this left me having to build a new world view which meant trying to figure out what values made sense to me. So I didn't really have the feelings of meaninglessness and angst that most teens go through. I had been forced to create a moral compass rather than inherit someone else's set of life rules, if that makes sense.
Peekatyou · 46-50, F
@plungesponge: must have been difficult tho, especially when you were younger and trying to figure out so much. Good for you for rising above. 😊
plungesponge · 41-45, M
😁 Thanks for asking the question and listening with a kind ear
Peekatyou · 46-50, F
You're welcome! Thank you for sharing a piece of you. 😊
My parents were different from many in that both had careers at a time when a majority of women didn't work outside the home. Their marriage modeled a partnership of equals. They loved and supported each other and their dreams (still do) and they raised us (me, my two sisters and our brother) to be independent, work hard, strive. They made sure that we had the opportunity to meet all kinds of people (all were welcome in their home) and that we were exposed to different kinds of music, literature, foods. They insisted we finish school and tried to prepare us to move about comfortably in the world, as much as possible. I feel very fortunate.
@Peekatyou: It wasn't perfect, by any means. But they were both raised with similar values and I think they had decided they were going to work really hard on sticking together, whatever happened. They celebrated their 60th wedding anniversary in June.
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Peekatyou · 46-50, F
@bijouxbroussard: Nahh i didn't think it was perfect. But still, a dream. So happy for you. 😊
in10RjFox · M
The place of upbringing has affected me more than the upbringing itself .. Each of us are branded and classified by our nation and continent .. So much so that you are never regarded for your thinking otherwise ..
JoyfulSilence · 46-50, M
I gained a love of learning, books, knowledge.
Peekatyou · 46-50, F
All great things. Good for you!
JoyfulSilence · 46-50, M
Too bad I do not read books as much as I used to. There really is not need for my job, and I am on the computer so much now.
maxlaff · 56-60, M
maxlaff · 56-60, M
@Stereoguy: aww hell... now i feel under pressure 😱
Peekatyou · 46-50, F
@maxlaff: I would be interested to know as well, if you would like... 💜
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Abbenthewarwolf · 18-21, M
Upbringing. Bring me up still. Not trusting
Abbenthewarwolf · 18-21, M
@Peekatyou: it may be a very short live
Peekatyou · 46-50, F
@Abbenblackwolf: I hope not. You deserve every chance in life. 💙
Abbenthewarwolf · 18-21, M
@Peekatyou: that doesn't mean I will get it
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Peekatyou · 46-50, F
I think we all have been affected in some way...?
icyreb · M
it made me icy,,, and a rebel...:)
Peekatyou · 46-50, F
You sound happy about that, so...yay?!?
icyreb · M
@Peekatyou: happy and proud of it..
Yes, its made me bitter and angry in a nutshell
Peekatyou · 46-50, F
That's sad, but relatable. Are you taking steps to get rid of such feelings? Not preaching. Just caring..
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Peekatyou · 46-50, F
@Stereoguy: oh. This makes me kinda sad. I want for you to have a childhood...! Sighhhh. Thanks for sharing.
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