Where did all this self blame crap come from?

We are like plants. There is no past life memories...it is past family memories. You are remembering things that happened to your ancestors. if your parents beat or molested or raped you, IT ISN'T YOUR FAULT HOW THIS EFFECTS YOU. If your doctors poo poo every ache and pain you have and treat you like you are argumentative for asking a question, IT ISN'T YOUR FAULT HOW THIS EFFECTS YOU. If your friends and co-workers are jealous of you for some stupid reason (and there is always some stupid reason) and they stab you in the back and lie about you, IT ISN'T YOUR FAULT HOW THIS EFFECTS YOU.

For God's sake and for your own sake, stop listening to these idiots that claim that your feelings and reactions to horrible things is somehow YOUR fault. it isn't.

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PoetryNEmotion · F

Whose fault are your reactions then?

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LILY61

@PoetryNEmotion thanks, i tried that. didn't work

PoetryNEmotion · F

@LILY61 There is a solution to this. You just haven't found it yet. Keep working. And who believes all these lies? Geez.

LILY61

@PoetryNEmotion everyone believes it. there are hundreds of them and one of me. i was beautiful and shy and brilliant. they took my brain my beauty and now i have nothing

Abstraction · 61-69, M

You're saying that we have past family memories from our ancestors? And this is why we suffer?

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Abstraction · 61-69, M

@LILY61 1. Family history in DNA does not include memories. It means that, for example, if your grandmother went through a period of hunger, you may have fat storing genes switched on.
2. The experts say that Deja Vu emerges from pattern recognition. Certain aspects of the experience are similar, and so our brain signals the feeling of familiarity - but it isn't the same.

LILY61

@Abstraction my statement was considered fact for about 5 years now. We are like plants. your abstract memories are from past relations who share your DNA. what? do you think it is in our bladder? i will grant you that some Deja Vu comes from pattern recognition but it is not the same kind of memory. in the near future, this will be regarded as normal information and not an excuse for yet another Shirley McClain book.

Abstraction · 61-69, M

@LILY61 Ok, thanks. I'll research this. Interesting.

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