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Its just hair but im so miserable.

I asked to get a trim. And cut some of the dead ends. She didnt have me towards the mirror and cut off all my beautiful hair. I am so upset. I looked worse coming out there then I did going in. She said I hope you dont kill me, but it all had to go. She said, everything left is healthy. But my hair was fine. Just dry. Then she said she would had to charge me more to style it and straighten it. It was 32. And I said no. I am not taking a picture any time soon. Its horrible. I have been crying all Damn day since yesterday. My long hair is gone and im so furious. I dont know what I should do.
Lochlee · 51-55, F Best Comment
That was unprofessional. You don't go in for an appendix op and the surgeon tells you, oh we removed one of your kidneys as well...wasn't looking good (I know the example is a bit extreme ;-) ) but she really had no right to do that.... Like you, I would be livid.
ScarletWitch · 26-30, F
I just couldnt believe she said: well if you want me to style it with a straighter to fix it, it will be another 12 dollars. Like wtf. I was so angery i was mad silent. Inside I felt like saying, bitch you should straighten my hair for free for fucking it up. But since her coworkers were there and other people I couldnt make a scene. I had act proper. I guess thats how I was raised to be.
Lochlee · 51-55, F
I am similar to you, we hate scenes...but she had no right and she had a cheek wanting to charge you more! If they have a webpage, rate the salon and state your reason. She might be forcing her "haircuts" on others. It is unacceptable.

Picklebobble2 · 56-60, M
Write a letter and complain.
Even if you don't send it, you'll feel a bit better about getting what you feel out of your system.
It sucks when you trust folk to alter your appearance because you can't do it yourself, and then see them foul it up.
I've had multiple barber foul-ups this way too !
Fluffybull · F
She should have told you (and shown you) how much she was going to take off. No wonder you're upset. The only good thing is, with the dry ends cut off, it will look shinier. And it will grow back.
tallpowerhouseblonde · 31-35, F
You can take legal action against her for this.Ive seen it done on Judge Judy.
Don't be sad about it, explore it, you may be surprised what people see when they look at it. Some will be shocked if they think that is how you perceive it, but you may find complete strangers suddenly attracted to you that weren't before. Go with it, not like you have any choice anyways, and it will grow back if you don't like it anyways.
UserNameSW · 46-50, M
I heard that chocolate makes hair grow faster.
Andrew19EightyFive · 36-40, M
Sorry... Give it a few short months, I think.

You're not used to it I imagine, but I can imagine you'll feel better about it over the next few days. To help in the meantime, may I suggest wearing a beanie?
SW-User
*consoling hugs*
We still like you.
Please be patient with yourself and your hair. It will grow back. At the right time, go to someone else who will listen and help you style it properly.
Buy yourself a new outfit, and stop crying. It will grow back.. It happens to everyone.
ScarletWitch · 26-30, F
You dont understand. She chopped it up and im fucking going insane
@ScarletWitch I do understand. I came home from beauty shops and Mr. Ohara said unkind things.. Life goes on. Get a wig, buy a hat. etc..
Virgo79 · 61-69, M
All had to go?
W.t.f. she's a crazy!
Virgo79 · 61-69, M
It was so pretty!
ScarletWitch · 26-30, F
Ik :(
get extansion or some thing aaaw im so sorry i had that happend to me once i look awfull now i have long hair but my recomendation to you is go back to the salon and talk to the manager and make an offical complain heck have her fired
ScarletWitch · 26-30, F
I did call today. I was not happy.
@ScarletWitch at did they say did they offer a fix?
firefall · 61-69, M
Well shit, I hope you didnt pay. If she can't follow instructions, she doesnt deserve a dime.
ScarletWitch · 26-30, F
@firefall i didnt want to get arrested. So I did and had to walk home in tears.
firefall · 61-69, M
@ScarletWitch They can't arrest you for nonpayment of a bill, I think. And ... I'd have made a huge noise about it, & loudly insisted on getting compensated for their fuckup. But then I'm old and lost all fucks long ago - at 23 or 24, I'd probably have shut up & suffered, too :/
SweetMae · 70-79, F
I am so sorry!! A hair dresser did that to me once. They should know better!!

 
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