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I recently started talking to this guy and we have been out 2 times and talk almost everyday, however, recently I started thinking about what he has said on a couple of occasions about money, so apparently he doesnt like gold diggers or opportunist which I get and he mentioned he has life insurance from his passing of his wife and how he thinks that he may think women hes dating may use him, I told him I am not even though he has wanted to pay on our last 2 dates and I paid for dessert just to show him I am not after his money, I am indpendent and live alone, wokr, have my own car, etc but I dont have as much money as probably he does and that makes me anxious even though I can support myself its still in the back of my head that he has mentioned this twice to me and it makes me think what will it look like in the future, Any thoughts?
TexChik · F
He was stupid for bringing that up because he made it an instant issue . The only way it affects you is if you believe there is a future with him ( as in becoming his wife ) . If he mentions it again drop the hammer on him about it and tell him it’s offensive for him to presume you are with him because of a life insurance policy . Had he never mentioned it you and everyone else would not have known . Honestly it sounds as if he would be a cheapskate and want to keep your financials separate even after a wedding . You definitely have something to talk to him about if you two fall in love .
JaneCas · 26-30, F
@TexChik Yes, I mean I would he think he would be more established than me since hes about 14 years than me, I like him because I like older men and because we have similar interests but that has made me really uncomfortable even after I told him about when he mentioned it the first time
TexChik · F
@JaneCas trust your gut
Fairydust · F
Strange he’d say that so early, I think it would put me off to be honest, taking about money so soon seems off 🚩 but you never know.
SW-User
He sounds like an insensitive idiot . I would move on.

 
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