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Don’t you think a 21 year old is WAY too young for a 32 year old?

So one of my close friends is 31 going to be 32 in July and she’s been telling us that she was seeing this guy for like two weeks. Great until she said that he’s 21. Thing is my friends and I don’t approve at all. Way too young he’s barely an adult and he’s a youth! None of us are youths anymore! My friends and I are like 26-32 years old. We told her that she’s going to get her and he might end up leaving her for another woman. Younger woman. We told her that we understand is her life we can’t tell her what to do but she’s a really look for someone her age. She said younger guys are cuter but men our age are sexy! Do you have a cousin that’s like 21 or 22 so I think she should set those two up. Plus they’re the same age and would make a better match but that’s my opinion.
This post makes me realize how busy I am minding my own damned business.
drymer · 56-60, M
I don't understand why this is such a big deal for you...

[quote]We told her that we understand is her life we can’t tell her what to do but she’s a really look for someone her age[/quote]

Interesting you don't see the contradiction right here in one sentence... So you "understand is her life", yet you and your friends feel entitled to change her life against her will?

And you seem to imply that a 21-yo guy is, mmmm, "not old enough"? A "youth"? Like "practically a child", or something...?

🙄
Salix75 · 46-50, F
Society barely bats an eye when older men date much younger women. But when it's the other way around, people freak out. Let her make her own decisions. If she's happy why rock the boat? Sure... it probably won't last, but then, most relationships don't. Life is about enjoying happiness where we find it.
ElizabethBabe1994 · 26-30, F
@Salix75 yeah you’re right that’s true. If she’s happy that’s all it matters
It's not my place to say who my friends go out with .

My sister married a guy 12 yeas older than her ...and they've been together for like 30 something years .
NickiHijab · F
Eh.. It's not too bad.
YMITheWayIM · 46-50, M
32/2 =16
16 + 7 = 23

Yes.
Azlotto · M
I do not...As long as he's not sponging off her.
iamonfire696 · 41-45, F
I think it’s fine and up to her really. 32 year old guys can be douchebags that don’t have their life together.

 
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