Do you use a tanning bed?
Ever since I lost weight and started looking better, I've been less hesitant to take my shirt off in public (e.g., the park, the lake). My skin was pale white. I'm sure I've blinded people who looked my way. I mostly tan outside, but I have been using a tanning bed some. It's a low-powered bed, and I lay for five minutes. I do this around three times each week.