It's not that you are kind in one department, and unkind in another. What difference does it make, if you are kind, only to those you like to be kind with/ selectively, or only to those who are kind to you? Kindness is not divisible.

Indeed. True kindness isn't just being kind to those who agree with you or you like.

Yeah...I know my limitations, so those I can't be kind to I simply don't deal with.

You're right. Kindness isn't about them, it's about you.

I think its nice to be nice

But i notice im often a jerk.. i blame my dad tho