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I Wish People Understood "taken In Hand"

A New Beginning!
With DD, communication is key. We have proven this time and time again. However, I truly feel this time we turned a new leaf.
We sat down twice this week to go over things and make new rules. Then after the first time, I made a list of things to go over. We talked about each thing in detail. We are now on the same page with everything.

I realized I did not give him full control and submission. I am ashamed of myself for it taking 2 years to see this. I should say I was not that I am. That is the past, We have moved forward.
Everything happens for a reason! My mess up lead us to our new beginning. It made me realize that the restrictions I gave him when I introduced DD, were wrong. There are no restrictions now. It made me also see how eager I am to submit to him in every way possible.

I am completely grateful for my Sir. He never gives up on me. I know that his punishment is to help us/me. He does not like to punish me. However, he will do it.

A big problem with last mess up was the book. He felt is hands were tied. He didn't want to go against what he said, what he has written down, the promises made. The new rule states "At no time are his tied" "punishment for a severe offense could last days".

I am happy with this. I don't ever want him to think that he is in a position where things can't be handled. In the end, I know after punishment I will see things differently.

Our long term goal? To never see the punishment page.

Thank you Sir, for never giving up. Always striving to make things better. We are not perfect people, no one is. But we are perfect for each other. I love you so very much!
Helle31
That is so beautifully written - and so right! I am so happy for both of you!
SilencedShy · 41-45, F
Thank you very much!
RsBrat
That is so sweet. Sounds like you two are really communicating well now. I am happy for you big hugs. I do worry about the no restrictions thing. Do you get a safeword
SilencedShy · 41-45, F
Thanks RS. We have a safe word for sex. Nothing else. When I have him restrictions it was no belt and no wooden spoons, no maintenance etc. Now it's all up to him. In the bedroom I do not think I will ever use our safe word. He is very in tune with me. However for just in case reasons we have one. I can not expect him to tell the difference between real struggle and me fighting for my life. Because I tend to love a struggle, feeling him over power me. The safe word I feel is more so that we cover all ends and there is no assuming.
SilencedShy · 41-45, F
I answered under RS. I agree with you Christian.
Amandaw1191 · 31-35, F
@SilencedShy We are the same way and I have a SafeWord though never used for sex when it comes to punishments it is completely up to him
Kman4You

 
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