I Want To Become The Person I Always Wanted To Be

I'm getting divorced. I've been married since 2002, the same month I got my BA. My husband controlled our money & used it unwisely. I had to ask him for a shirt, a haircut, even lettuce for our 2 boys. He didn't let me go grocery shopping alone. We rented a house until he couldn't afford it anymore b/c I quit my job. I had to move back home w/ my folks, my 2 boys & I. Finally I'm beginning to feel free. I am working way below my paygrade now, but that's my choice for now. I want to go back to school, I want to move far away, I want to do anything that I want now. I've lived on the East coast my whole life, I want to move West, maybe to Oregon. I HATE how humid it gets in the summer & the ice/snow in the winter. It may snow there, I can deal w/ that. I want to see the Pacific ocean before I die. I think perhaps, it will be soon...