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Is it ok for a man to be overly emotional

To begin, my entire life until 4th year university I showed almost 0 emotion ever. A few years ago my mo passed away and now I find myself to be stupidly emotional as in I can cry over the simplest videos. I’m aware some is dad instinct even though I don’t have a kid but especially when I see a dad really good with a kid especially a daughter my eyes well up and I don’t understand why because I never wanted kids just because I think I would be a bad father. Something just seemed to change though after me mom passed away where there is isn’t a single animal rescue video I can watch without tears in my eyes or stuff like kids accepting adoption papers from fathers. Maybe it’s a natural father instinct which scares me but I just don’t get it
Like seeing a little girl crying that she’s been adopted by the father or seeing a broken down dog finally seeing love breaks me down but it never did before my mom passed so I don’t know If it’s that or dad instincts because for whatever reason I’m so good with kids in hockey and I don’t know why but watching any video of a dad being really good with his kid makes me emotional even though I never planned on kids
Maybe this is just a rant and less of a question but since covid restricts me I’m open to hear thoughts...
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CrazyMusicLover · 31-35
I'm not a man but I can relate to this. I mean switching from a rather unemotional state into overly emotional state and having tears welled up in my eyes watching things that don't move other people and wouldn't have moved me in my earlier life either. I wish I could have an explanation and solution for it too because it's really annoying. I don't think it's gender related but it seems like it happens to women far more often than to men.