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Is it ok for a man to be overly emotional

To begin, my entire life until 4th year university I showed almost 0 emotion ever. A few years ago my mo passed away and now I find myself to be stupidly emotional as in I can cry over the simplest videos. I’m aware some is dad instinct even though I don’t have a kid but especially when I see a dad really good with a kid especially a daughter my eyes well up and I don’t understand why because I never wanted kids just because I think I would be a bad father. Something just seemed to change though after me mom passed away where there is isn’t a single animal rescue video I can watch without tears in my eyes or stuff like kids accepting adoption papers from fathers. Maybe it’s a natural father instinct which scares me but I just don’t get it
Like seeing a little girl crying that she’s been adopted by the father or seeing a broken down dog finally seeing love breaks me down but it never did before my mom passed so I don’t know If it’s that or dad instincts because for whatever reason I’m so good with kids in hockey and I don’t know why but watching any video of a dad being really good with his kid makes me emotional even though I never planned on kids
Maybe this is just a rant and less of a question but since covid restricts me I’m open to hear thoughts...
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Nothing at all wrong with a man having feelings.
PhantomStorm · 26-30, M
@bijouxbroussard but in all honesty and I honestly will take no offence
Would you be off put by someone who is emotional
I just ask that because I can hide extremely well but prefer to be open with a partner
From a women’s prospective, and be completely honest, do you shy away from men who happen to have the odd moment of crying?
@PhantomStorm Assuming we’re compatible otherwise, that hasn’t put me off. My late husband could get teary with certain types of music. He wept the day our son was born, which made me love him all the more. 😌
PhantomStorm · 26-30, M
@bijouxbroussard really? Especially with music there are a few songs that make me cry every time and even with I was with my last girlfriend I always thought she would think lesser of me honestly
PhantomStorm · 26-30, M
@PhantomStorm sorry I should have been more clear. It songs like father son by Peter Gabriel because there’s a line exactly what me and my dad went through.

I never Had emotions towards songs
PhantomStorm · 26-30, M
That was one of the ones that made it real for me though