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I Am Having Boyfriend Problems

How can you tell the difference between if you are bringing insecurities from your past relationship into your knew one vs being smarter in your current relationship?

My problem is that I'm kind of paranoid my boyfriend will have a relationship with someone else while he is seeing me. In a past relationship that lasted 7 years the guy I was with had other girlfriends. I suspected but he always had a good excuse for the evidence I'd find.

I'd like to think I learn from my mistakes but maybe I'm applying it wrong because my boyfriend now keeps turning out to be honest but my suspicions are starting to frustrate him a little.

I don't want to be dumb and blind but what if I'm dragging emotional baggage in from from the last relationship into my current one?
cjkenton
This is a tough question and I wish I had an intelligent answer for you. Do you honestly think he's cheating? If not, I guess bypass the urge to speak about your fears. You could hire a private investigator too, but if he found out, your relationship will be over. To be honest, no matter who the guy, you will have trust issues because of the jerk you were with before. He ruined your trust. Are you guys thinking about getting married?
morrgin · F
No I don't think he's cheating anymore. I was being paranoid and have my trust in him. Yes we got engaged September 22 of this year.
ljjams
you cant help your suspicions...just be honest..if he gts upset....remind him you have been cheated on..Maybe he will stop what ever it is that is setting off your radar.
SW-User
Yes... sounds like you are.

 
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