What post? Muy post aren't about me thinking I'm the most beautiful, or thinking I'm better than anyone in any way. I won't let anyone down me for being who I am though. And I won't let anyone tell me that I have to accept anything I don't want including advances from men older than I prefer to be involved with. If that makes me conceited, so be man. I've never said older men were ugly, and I'm too good for them. A lot of them are attractive to me, but age isn't just a number to me. That's not rude. When someone makes a tactless comment, I am not obligated to be kind to someone who's making me uncomfortable.