I Think That Personality Is More Important Than Good Looks

When it comes to dating, looks and personality are both important. A guy's appearance initially attracts me, but his personality determines if I continue to date him or not.

If a person is good-looking but they have a shitty personality.. their appearance changes before my eyes. They suddenly become less attractive. And If I don't find someone attractive , but they have a great personality, they start to become more physically attractive. It's weird how that happens.. but it does.

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rachelsj · 22-25, F

The nerd in school noone pays attention too, yet you see him in the real world and he gives his seat for an older lady. I find that attractive

SW-User

Do you make assumptions like you see someone whos good looking and dressed a certain way to make you think they would have a shit personality, but then you talk to them and they turn out to have the best of both ? Like can you get over the stereotypes you make ?

Victorianna · 31-35, F

@SW-User I try to get to know people before judging who they are as a person. . But we all make initial assumptions based on a person's appearance. For example, if I see a guy in a brand new Ferrari ,I'll assume he's rich ,but i don't assume he's selfish, arrogant or looks down on people. However, I don'trust anyone until I know their true character.

That being said, there is some stereotypes I won't get over. For example, I'd never befriend a drug addict,because it's stereotypical for them to steal to feed their habit. They'd never be able to earn my trust regardless of how good of a person they are. Unless they were totally clean.

SW-User

@Victorianna thats a good way to look at it

I like how you considered the flip side too

Shows what my heads lacking

i was only thinking about good looking or rich ppl and the way i percieve them 🤦‍♂️

With drug addicts i would colour the view for them to be untrustworthy as more of an archetype than stereotype

But yeah never judge a book by a cover - unless its got a needle in its spine 😂

Too far 😜

Victorianna · 31-35, F

@SW-User haha I like that phrase 😂👍😜

SW-User

It’s called chemistry.

Reemar · 31-35, F

True. And I always look for the little things... random acts of kindness.. things they do unconsciously .. things that interest them and why... THOSE really draw me in too :)

MartinTheFirst · 26-30, M

lol, when your profile pic is really small it just looks like a pair of lips with cum all over

Victorianna · 31-35, F

@MartinTheFirst OMG 😂😂😂

MartinTheFirst · 26-30, M

@Victorianna 🤭

Lilnonames · F

Hygene plays a role very highly

SW-User

@Lilnonames its hot out and i smelled some questionable ppl today 😷

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