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Why does she do this to him?

She and I had been together...but she was married, I didn’t know.

She got caught by her husband talking to another guy...he forgave her.

She sent me an email 3 weeks ago. He knows I’m her ex. She made an @msn to get past the email I blocked.

Why does she do this? He’s happy. He sees her beautiful face every day. He works hard fighting fires to give her a house, a car, a future.

She works too, but doesn’t make as much as he does...

He wants her to be happy. He wants kids one day. He wants just to see her smile and he can keep doing it...

Why does she send me emails? (I doubt she sent an email to just me...)

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Vivaci

She’s a cheater. They never change and I pray she doesn’t find a loyal guy or else he’s going to be so heartbroken. 😖

AnthroKenji · 36-40, M

@Vivaci Her husband is very loyal.

Idk what he would do if he found out she emailed me again.

Vivaci

I hate such cheaters...I wish they’d marry cheaters and save the loyal folk for someone else. 😠@AnthroKenji

AnthroKenji · 36-40, M

@Vivaci Yeah, he uh, I think he just wants her to be happy. She’s a smooth talker. Unfortunately I think she’s aware of how to weaponize her giggle, her personality, her body.

Really sucks.

Vivaci

I’ve known such people...to that I just say...whatever! As long as they both are happy with each other...@AnthroKenji

AnthroKenji · 36-40, M

@Vivaci Well like PepsiColaP said, its not my issue, nothing for me to fix, just keep the blocking up, email and phone.

Vivaci

Exactly...it’s their life. Just make sure you’re not involved in any way. @AnthroKenji

AnthroKenji · 36-40, M

@Vivaci For sure. I'll just stick to my shitty dating apps. They'll be fine.

Vivaci

I was just talking with my son bout this last night...he wanted to know why his gf cheated with him. What can we say about cheaters? He didn’t get a closure...but it’s a good life lesson. @AnthroKenji

AnthroKenji · 36-40, M

@Vivaci It is, there's no pain like from the opposite (or same) sex and there's not immediate closure, but there will be healing if you let it.

Oster1 · M

In all respect, what sucks is you playing her game. I understand your feelings but she will never be yours or anybody’s until she crashes and burns, please try to have respect for her husband and let it go. Why have the karma come back on you?@AnthroKenji

AnthroKenji · 36-40, M

@Oster1 I didn't play her game thats why she's blocked on her @msn now as well. The chains in this post actually explain that whole lot if you read them, it'll be a little clearer what's going on.

Oster1 · M

I understand very well and have read them.@AnthroKenji

AnthroKenji · 36-40, M

@Oster1 👍

Oster1 · M

👍@AnthroKenji