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Why does she do this to him?

She and I had been together...but she was married, I didn’t know.

She got caught by her husband talking to another guy...he forgave her.

She sent me an email 3 weeks ago. He knows I’m her ex. She made an @msn to get past the email I blocked.

Why does she do this? He’s happy. He sees her beautiful face every day. He works hard fighting fires to give her a house, a car, a future.

She works too, but doesn’t make as much as he does...

He wants her to be happy. He wants kids one day. He wants just to see her smile and he can keep doing it...

Why does she send me emails? (I doubt she sent an email to just me...)

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Miram · 31-35, F

She needs more attention, possibly even poly, she isn't in love with him enough to put silly passing needs aside. Not even to be honest with him.

AnthroKenji · 36-40, M

@Miram She did ask me about poly once. I told her I don’t like it as a lifestyle and would incorporate aspects of it.

I think she does also, I’m not going to email her. I’ve been there, it’s uh, messier than I’d like to revisit. I’m happy having conversations right now.

Although the dating app is kinda shitty.

Not enough to talk to an ex though.

Miram · 31-35, F

@AnthroKenji ask the fireman for a date instead

AnthroKenji · 36-40, M

@Miram That’d shake things up wouldn’t it? He’s not my type though sadly.

Miram · 31-35, F

@AnthroKenji what's your type in men?

AnthroKenji · 36-40, M

@Miram I like more twink men to be with. I like being the masculine one typically.

Viper · M

@AnthroKenji invite her to a blind date threesome...

Have her husband be the surprise third 😋 (if he's not interested, then just invite him over for video games or beer... and be just as surprised as he is, when she gets there).

AnthroKenji · 36-40, M

@Viper Yeah no it’s not a pornhub production

Miram · 31-35, F

@Viper why reward her cheating ass with a show

Viper · M

@AnthroKenji @Miram

Just to be clear... I meant invite her over thinking she's going to have a blind date threesome...

But in reality, she's walking into a trap... where you show her hubby she's showing up trying to cheat on him...

Probably a very bad idea to actually do (as they could both turn on you)... but I thought the sides of it was funny.

It's a trap, not a reward!

AnthroKenji · 36-40, M

@Viper I think you were right at “a very bad idea”. It is.