We have been sharing for more than 15 years now , and it is a great experience. Before you share your girl friend you need to know that she is as much into this as you are. Then open communication is very important for this to be a success
@davidstorm not a question of that. After I found out my ex-spouse was cheating; I offered FFM, MMF, couples and solo dates. Just wasn't interested. For some, the fun is gone when the spouse knows.
I've remarried, but spouse is not interested. Says I should have done so before getting married again.
Not a question of "guts". It is simply honoring my spouse's wishes.
correct as you should but a big big pity especially throwing away the opportunity of a life time with a willing partner i would go bazerk if my wife did it behind my back but i would let her go with another while i watched in some way or other
@funtravler I had no idea how many other men were into this either at first. When my first wife and I initially experimented with her being with other men while I watched and enjoyed her afterward, we thought that we were total freaks. We had no idea that other couples enjoyed it too.
We were aware of 'swinger' magazines but we thought those ads were fake and that those magazines were just another form of porn. We had heard of swinger clubs but we were skeptical that those actually existed. My first wife only had sex with men we knew in our everyday life. Our divorce was unrelated to our lifestyle.
My wife Kate has been having sex with other men for many years now. We have belonged to a few swing clubs and visited swing clubs in other states. We have met many, many, couples who are into the wife being with other men while the husband watches or joins in.
The majority of lifestyle couples we have met over the years are into couples-play. The biggest subset of lifestyle couples are couples who like for the wife to be with other men. Many of the men who have been with my wife Kate have confided that they wish their wife was like Kate and would have sex with other men.
In our world, there is a subtle difference between a cuckold couple and a hotwife couple. Often a cuckold couple likes the 'other male' to be dominant and degrade the husband. A hotwife couple tends to be a couple who just likes for the wife to have sex with other men. We are a hotwife couple.
@robandkate i am into the life style of the wife with other men while i watch there is a name for the life style it is called candaulism after the king candalist who love to show his wife the queen to his guards until one fell in love with her and put the king to the knife
I realize that this original post is old but people have continued to reply. My wife has been happily having sex with other men for our entire marriage. I love to watch and be with her afterward but she does have sex with other guys alone then tells me the details in bed later. My wife has been having sex with her married boss for over 12 years.
no it only started three years ago after she went through early menopause she was very quiet and withdrawn before then and one night watching tv my buddy was talking to her and had his hand on her knee i text him from down the lounge room i wa at the back of the room away from them on my pc n the darkness,to start caressing her knee see if she stops you and she didnt even when he got to her crotch and was caressing her pussy with his finger this took place over a few weeks though. the pic is a few months ago taken in semi darkness only lit from the tv he had told me he was now getting in her pants and rubbing her clit so i set up a mini wifi spy cam so i could watch from my pc ago
@funtravler Yes, for real. We have always had a sexually open relationship. It is the second marriage for each of us. My first marriage was also a sexually open relationship. Our divorce was unrelated to our lifestyle.
It is much more difficult than most people imagine to find other compatible couples. We have played with other couples many times but we find it much easier for my wife to get laid because guys are always hitting on her.
Kate is more of an exhibitionist, and I tend more toward voyeurism, so me watching her with other guys works out great for everyone. I would be happy to share details of either/both marriages with you privately. PM me.
@VeronicaJane Kate had always had an interest in a sexually open relationship but she had never found the right guy. Her previous relationships had all been monogamous. I had previous experience with this lifestyle in my first marriage so Kate was comfortable exploring it with me.
Kate did start having sex with two of my married buddies before we got married. They were friends who each had been having sex with my first wife during that marriage. We got married at Hedonism II in Negril Jamaica. The entire two-week wedding vacation involved sex with other people.
@Funopenrelationship lol you are right there just remember what we are, and are not lol we are straightforward guy's that like to show her off to our best intentions, we also like to show her off in reality and also want to let it go further if we are in mind to weather or not we take personal control or just sit back and let it unfold, we are still in control, [unlike cuckolds who are controls by the wife]. we are candaulists, our mentor was king candaulist the king who enjoyed showing his queen for others to appreciate sexually
@VeronicaJane nearly never, and don't think its gone unnoticed. I have been keeping my eye out for any woman who shows any spark of interest. Oddly enough, it's not that hard to find a woman who will cheat on her s/o, but cuckold him? Oh heavens no. 🤔 Perculiar.
Aren't you in the LIAM group? No play for you, only for her? You talked about it, so it's not cheating. But why would she want it? PM if you prefer....
We're in a threesome with our best friend. We started as a foursome 20+ years ago but sadly we're now only three. Occasionally (but not too often) he takes my wife out on a date and afterwards, takes her home to his place to stay the night. She'll text or phone me a few times during her "date" and when they get back to his place. I still find it a great turn on knowing that they're together and love it most of all the next morning when she comes home and tells me all about it. I wasn't sure it would work with just one wife, but it works surprisingly well.
Don't understand the playing with jealousy part. Be careful about the other part. Somehow seems to creep in there. "But Honey, I really want you to _______, and if you love me...."
Think that goes back to early experiences. As for the latter.. guess I don't understand why she would want that. Though I could see myself doing something similar if it turned her on... not sure
Well, sometimes they are not interested at first, or so they say. Then they try it and maybe like it, or maybe lights a fire. Maybe a unexpected turn, and before you know it the lioness is out.
The urge to reclaim works until she unexpectedly finds someone she enjoys better and starts thinking of, craving and longing for. Oops, too late. The stallion is out the gate and too late to close the gate...
@Funopenrelationship he was a king before before christ arose he had a beautiful wife and when she went to bed he used to let the guards spy on her getting bathed getting ready for bed etc the head guard in charge fell in love with his queen and told her of what her husband the king got upto letting everyone peep on her she then got the head guard to put her husband to death as he did willingly for his queen but in stead of being with the queen she had him put to death for treason thats the story of king candaulist
no my friend id like to see my wife stretch to the point of painful my friend nearly got to fuck her and he has a humongous dick its over 9inches long and very broad like a babes arm its massive he's finger fucked her and two of his fingers are equal to three of mine
@Funopenrelationship id love to have seen it stretch wide as he tried to force it in she was ready one weekend while we where a way and he stayed in the bar and got drunk instead of coming to our room she was pacing around naked asking when was he coming up to our room i kept texting him to come up she's on heat big time asking for you but i never got an answer back of him she whispered in his ear at breakfast the next morning hay dick head you missed out big time last night everything youv hoped for was yours for the taking and you didnt come up ill send you a pic of the time before when we all went a way for a long weekend
