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I Say, Stop Complaining If You Aren't Changing

I don't like whining about things that aren't going to change, and I don't like whiners either if you aren't going to do anything then you're just wasting your time and everyone else's that you complain to. There's a difference between venting and asking for advice and screaming into the well just to hear your own echo.
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Very true. Keep in mind, alot of people on here that are posting their suffering are simply just expressing it. Purging it. They may not take to people giving their two cents because they just want someone to listen.
IBHappy · F
It's called Victim Role and closed thinking!
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You ever wonder if they're trying to break through to their own subconscious? To really *hear* the words they say?
StressedNumbness · 22-25, F
[@396584,anothervessel] If they're using someone else as a sounding board then they're essentially asking for advice. But if they are going to complain just so that they can reject the advice and aren't happy unless someone else is agree with them. Then maybe they need to do some deep thinking and sort it out on their own.
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[@685998,StressedNumbness] Well said.
AwesomeMcAwesome · 36-40, M
I agree 1000%. This drives me crazy. It’s ok to be frustrated or disappointed. But you also have to get pass that moment and address the problem. If not, then stfu.

 
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